Tiny labia are no more “normal” than what this labiaplasty surgeons call “hypertrophy”. Given what we’re fed, it can be difficult to love our genitals. At 24, I finally came to except my own, after contemplating surgery. I couldn’t part with them, and I learned some things, too.
Learning to Love my Long Labia
I do not have a long labia, but I have a labia, and it isn’t naturally tucked in. I have always loved my labia until recently. A guy I was seeing told me it was gross. A man has never insulted my labia before, but this really shook me. I was always told I had a beautiful vagina. I realize I can’t jump to cutting my labia because of what one guy said, but it REALLY disgusted me.
I can’t tell you how many gross penises I’ve seen in my life. Never would I ever say a thing to them, nor would I judge them on it.
It kills me so many women get labia plasties because of fear of what men think of it. It also kills me that we as a society allow such a brutality.
Labias are all different, it has nothing to do with how much sex you’ve had either! It’s all genetic, and depending how much estrogen is in your mothers body when you are born, decides upon the size of your labia. Having a large labia honestly makes you more woman than someone without a large labia. Not saying having a large labia is better, just saying it isn’t worse.
I’m lucky my labia is small enough to tuck in, but for those girls who are ashamed of their labia DONT BE. YOU’RE BEAUTIFUL, and the right guy/girl will love you for whatever the fuck your labia looks like.
